Why is my Google apps account on android 2.2 not working?

Attempting to keep the problem concise my wife and & have matching T-Mobile MyTouch phones running Froyo both with the latest Google Maps updates installed and both phones working perfectly in every other way.Were each-other's friends in Latitude. We're each the only friend the other has. literally sitting two feet from the other Latitude claims the other has a stale location and will not update. Looking at the other in Latitude the Real time updating option is grayed-out.Here's where it gets even stranger.android 2.2 My phone shows her location yet when we go to the web version of Latitude it shows her location as 66 days old Basically I am seeing completely different information about her on my phone, vs. and the web something is clearly broken.At one point Latitude was working perfectly for us, using these same phones & Google Apps accounts, but at some point along the way it all just completely fell apart. Since the forum is not being flooded with complaints that Latitude simply doesn't work I'm assuming it's a problem here but for the life of me can't figure-out what else we can do.Thank you